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  • Writer's pictureLady Phoenix

12 Months A Slave

Updated: Jan 4

Slave M has received a year of training in how to serve, obey and worship his Mistress. He is also an example of how a slave with no previous experience of serving a Mistress can make such excellent progress in the space of a year. 

Slave M didn’t express his intention of being a long-term slave for me from the outset, in the well-written application I received in January 2023. But here we are twelve months on, and having visited my Lair for monthly sessions since then (as well as treating me to two fabulous dinners and accompanying me to a lively Femdom event), Slave M has received a year of training in how to serve, obey and worship his Mistress. He is also an example of how a slave with no previous experience of serving a Mistress can make such excellent progress in the space of a year. 

To me, a good slave will be attentive to his Mistress’s needs, and also trust in his Mistress that she knows what’s best for her slave during his training. He also needs to ensure he follows all his Mistress’s protocols so that they are firmly ingrained in his mind. One of the earlier errors that I insisted on correcting with Slave M was that he had a tendency to interrupt and talk over me. Fortunately, I was able to iron this out of his behaviour right from the get-go in session one. 

Having monthly sessions has meant that Slave M has been able to have a variety of new experiences with me. He has been taking note of these since our very first session when he was completely vanilla but keen to please and eager to learn, and is happy for me to share this list of firsts with you all right here:


Wearing stockings and a suspender belt

Wearing lipstick 

Wearing high heels

Wearing wig

Wearing a collar and lead

Wearing a latex hood



Being gagged 

Having nipple clamps used on me

Having my balls clamped

Being tied to cross

Being tied to suspension frame

Being suspended from a suspension frame while enduring CBT

Being tied using Shibari and suspended from a suspension frame

Being restrained and tied to a sex swing

Being whipped in private

Being whipped in public

Being paddled, flogged and caned

Being pegged with small to medium-sized dildos 

Sucking a strap-on

Being spit-roasted by two Mistresses

Submitting to two Mistresses simultaneously

Experiencing breath control

Being ball busted

Enduring electrical stimulation of my cock and balls

Enduring electrical stimulation of my butt

Experiencing a hands-free orgasm using electrical stimulation

Experiencing a the biggest orgasm of my life whilst being tied up and wearing stockings

Kept in unlocked chastity

Kept in locked chastity including:

-Going to work in a chastity cage

-Sleeping in a chastity cage

-Working out in the gym in a chastity cage

-Going to the spa in a chastity cage

-Having my birthday with wanking / orgasm prevented by chastity cage locked in place under the sole control of Mistress.

-Going through the entire Locktober in chastity and without orgasm

Receiving remote prostate play in private place

Receiving remote prostate play in public place

Receiving Mistress’ spit in my mouth

Receiving champagne from Mistress’ mouth

Receiving Mistress’ pee in a glass in a restaurant

Worshipping  Mistress’ feet

Witnessing Mistress giving herself an orgasm

Pleasuring Mistress with my tongue

Experiencing a massive orgasm whilst pleasuring Mistress with his tongue

Sucking and licking Mistress’ nipples

Attending a big Femdom event as Mistress’ slave



Now 2024 is coming there are still so many new “firsts” for Slave M to experience, so he has already booked his January session with me…and a hot, beautiful T-girl! It looks like the year will be as full of amazing new encounters and activities as in 2023…but watch this space and see!

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