ETIQUETTE
FIRST CONTACT:
First impressions matter. When getting in touch, please include the following in your initial message:
- Your name
- The service you’re enquiring about
- Preferred date and time
- Location of the meeting
- Desired duration
I prefer text messages over emails. Regardless of how you make contact, I require a brief phone call prior to confirming any booking.
Messages such as “hi mistress” or “available?” will not receive a response and will be blocked, as will excessive or repeated messaging. For safety reasons, I do not answer calls from withheld numbers or landlines, and I am unavailable for calls between 10pm and 10am.
Please do not call or message asking for rates, services or ask what I'll be wearing—I’m very happy to discuss all of this in detail via Direct Chat, not during a standard call. We can discuss outfit choices AFTER you've paid your deposit.
Tribute
Your tribute should be presented upon entering my studio.
Time-Keeping
Punctuality is sexy. If you’re running late or need to cancel, please let me know as soon as possible—courtesy is always appreciated.
Respect & Boundaries
Courtesy and respect are essential. If I have to repeatedly ask you to stop doing something, the session will end immediately without refund.
Gifting
Gifts are never expected, but always appreciated. If you wish to indulge me, I adore Bordelle lingerie, Gio or Cervin stockings, Vivienne Westwood jewellery, seasonal flowers, dark chocolate from Fortnum & Mason, Diptyque candles, or fragrances such as Tom Ford Ombré Leather or Le Labo Thé Noir 29.
GIFTING: Visit my Throne List for ideas and inspiration, or you can use the Throne platform to get them direct too. LADY PHOENIX THRONE
Final Note
If you approach me with courtesy, clarity, and good manners, you’ll find I’m warm, engaging, and genuinely invested in creating an exceptional experience for us both.






